Something that I posted 2.5 years ago...still applies...

I get hurt. Mebbe others get hurt too.And cry too.And get fed up of crying.Chuck everything, and say "To hell with this world"..decide to move on.And find themselves crying again.

From my observation,good and nice people cry more.Coz u wouldnt come across bigger fools than them.Am not talking abt goodness or being nice as foolishness.The problem arises when they expect others to be good too.Why will others be good to u? Jus coz u were good to them? Ha! Quid pro quo works only if someone is rubbed the wrong way.Otherwise people are happy for being treated nicely and conveniently forget about it.

To be loved in return.The eternal human need.Love.People want to love someone. And want to be loved in return.And my god,what all they endure for this! If only a fraction of that effort was spent in loving oneself...

Ever thought if you love yourself? How much? How do you love yourself? What do u do when you love yourself? Why is it so difficult to love yourself? Coz u know ur shortcomings, ur mistakes n faults... and this is the reason,when u discover the other person u 'loved' aint tht perfect as u tght, u get disillusioned. Nobody loves the other person's vices. Coz nobody can accept their own.

You'll buy gifts and roses and do what not for the person you love. Ever spared a thought to think what you would do for yourself if you loved yourself? Most people go blank. A treat at your favt restaurant, or an expensive indulgence or something as materialistic would be the answer of the remaining. None would promise to keep loving their own self forever.

This may sound like one of those centerspread articles frm TOI on sundays, but I was reading a blog when I came across a line.."All she wanted was love..." and I lost my cool. Everybody wants love,dammit. Big deal. And everybody goes through heartbreaks. So? You'll keep crying all your life,is it? Heck,why blame tht other person when you, yourself, arnt intrested in keeping your life happy and cheerful? He left you and you left yourself. And you carry on the search for someone who will love you. You crave for love. Coz you need to be loved,for you are a human being,after all! You cant love yourself. You always need someone else to do that for you.

Face it, if you cant love the person you are, the person you've being with all this years....what justice can you do to another person?? On second thoughts, seriously,AIIC!


© Zarine.

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