Hmm...
Insecurity of losing love makes us mistakingly lose the friend in them ; insecurity of losing the friend makes us mistakingly fall in love with them.
Principle 1.
Waiting for returns somehow robs life of its precious moments.Return of a loved one,return of a gesture,return of a call,a SMS,return of the Jedi..err,tht's getting too much. Waiting for something big,eventful to happen.It never really does happen,does it? Setting huge long term goals,looking at the big picture,thinking about the future...bah...aint it boring? I never believed in planning,coz they never worked for me.All the plans I've made so far have met the same success as fish living in a frost free fridge.And the analogies I make these days suck as the Microsoft Products do.And am not talking abt their vacuum cleaner.Old joke,I know. So,what's the point in giving ourselves the false hope of a security and control when nothing happens as per the plans? The level of comfort it brings might be a good carrot,but it's as comfortable as lying on a rock and imagining you are on cloud nine.This was bad too,I agree.Thank you. I've decided to take lil decisions everyday.
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Almost happened to me some time back.
Thankfully, wisened up just in time before disaster struck...
@ Amar - Lol,u can say that ;)
@ Vipz - ???
The topic aint that easy to comprehend. actually it all boils down to the very nature of our brains that we clinch to everything that comes our way , be it love or money or any god damn thing. And when something just starts slipping away , we call them insecurities. An insecurity of something which cannot be kept in your hold. Somethings which arent yours anyways shouldnt lead to insecurities in the first place itself.
@ Manish - Insecurity doesnt arise when we feel that the thing is slippin away.It creeps in when we become so used to something that we are scared of its absence.And we inturn,hold on it more tightly. But seldom do we realise...it can suffocate the relation to its death...
"Somethings which arent yours anyways shouldnt lead to insecurities in the first place itself"
They dont.:). Only things which we have/had,lead to insecurities.
I dont believe anything belongs to us...And thats why I say so..
Your dog,your boyfriend,( no pun intended that both of these 2 names are together..) your car, your family... No One..
All of them are individuals. The things that we think are ours, arent actually with us I would say.. We are lucky that we are coexisting with them. And after a passage of time when these things arent existing with us anymore , we need to sit back and thank God that we spent some precious time with these things.
:-)
@ Hirdu - Shukriya :)
and so true.. but so tough to realize when it actually happens..
So simple??
Looks like I have achieved it..
:-)
@ ranjan - Umm? :)