I didn’t know there was a template for a blog post in MS word. In the last 2 years, an idea which was dormant in my idea for about 2 decades or so started germinating. It was mostly watered by the birth of my daughter (that sounded weird) It was about migrating to Australia. There was something about this place which allured me. It was away, self-sufficient, least bothered, aloof, didn’t give a damn and it was both ugly and pretty. It was me in a lot of ways. I started the immigration process by visiting those visa consultants (a special mention of a friend, TJ, a discussion with whom helped me narrow it down) and then over the period of the next 4-5 months struggled through the documentation process. Husband complied wherever possible, but was mostly a sleeping partner in the whole process (that’s very unlikely of him, though. As I discover much later that he played along as he wasn’t much keen on migration, but did so on my behest). Nevertheless, half of 2014 and a...
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Almost happened to me some time back.
Thankfully, wisened up just in time before disaster struck...
@ Amar - Lol,u can say that ;)
@ Vipz - ???
The topic aint that easy to comprehend. actually it all boils down to the very nature of our brains that we clinch to everything that comes our way , be it love or money or any god damn thing. And when something just starts slipping away , we call them insecurities. An insecurity of something which cannot be kept in your hold. Somethings which arent yours anyways shouldnt lead to insecurities in the first place itself.
@ Manish - Insecurity doesnt arise when we feel that the thing is slippin away.It creeps in when we become so used to something that we are scared of its absence.And we inturn,hold on it more tightly. But seldom do we realise...it can suffocate the relation to its death...
"Somethings which arent yours anyways shouldnt lead to insecurities in the first place itself"
They dont.:). Only things which we have/had,lead to insecurities.
I dont believe anything belongs to us...And thats why I say so..
Your dog,your boyfriend,( no pun intended that both of these 2 names are together..) your car, your family... No One..
All of them are individuals. The things that we think are ours, arent actually with us I would say.. We are lucky that we are coexisting with them. And after a passage of time when these things arent existing with us anymore , we need to sit back and thank God that we spent some precious time with these things.
:-)
@ Hirdu - Shukriya :)
and so true.. but so tough to realize when it actually happens..
So simple??
Looks like I have achieved it..
:-)
@ ranjan - Umm? :)