Hmm...
Insecurity of losing love makes us mistakingly lose the friend in them ; insecurity of losing the friend makes us mistakingly fall in love with them.
8 bahane karke....
One great thing about Blogosphere is Tags :)). When u dunno wht to blog abt,here comes a tag to ur rescue :D. Surbhi , the lovely one, has tagged me. She's intrested in knowing 8 things I'd want in my "Partner in Crime" - P.I.C (tht's wht I prefer calling "him" ;) ). Knows what to talk and when to talk! He should sense the situation and act accordingly. Loves food and loves to cook/experiment with it. (Btw, I jus discovered Upma + Sauce and Butterscotch + Choc sauce are good combos. Infact, anything with Choc sauce on it is good, what say, LLVP? ;) ) We shouldn't have to seek permission from each other to do things. As in,if a pal is in town, I can invite him over without thinking what will my P.I.C think. If he feels like going for a trek, he can. No restrictions whatsoever. As long as we know abt each other's whereabouts, P.I.C can be in Honolulu for all I care..! :D Should be able to deal with my mood swings using the right techniq...
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Almost happened to me some time back.
Thankfully, wisened up just in time before disaster struck...
@ Amar - Lol,u can say that ;)
@ Vipz - ???
The topic aint that easy to comprehend. actually it all boils down to the very nature of our brains that we clinch to everything that comes our way , be it love or money or any god damn thing. And when something just starts slipping away , we call them insecurities. An insecurity of something which cannot be kept in your hold. Somethings which arent yours anyways shouldnt lead to insecurities in the first place itself.
@ Manish - Insecurity doesnt arise when we feel that the thing is slippin away.It creeps in when we become so used to something that we are scared of its absence.And we inturn,hold on it more tightly. But seldom do we realise...it can suffocate the relation to its death...
"Somethings which arent yours anyways shouldnt lead to insecurities in the first place itself"
They dont.:). Only things which we have/had,lead to insecurities.
I dont believe anything belongs to us...And thats why I say so..
Your dog,your boyfriend,( no pun intended that both of these 2 names are together..) your car, your family... No One..
All of them are individuals. The things that we think are ours, arent actually with us I would say.. We are lucky that we are coexisting with them. And after a passage of time when these things arent existing with us anymore , we need to sit back and thank God that we spent some precious time with these things.
:-)
@ Hirdu - Shukriya :)
and so true.. but so tough to realize when it actually happens..
So simple??
Looks like I have achieved it..
:-)
@ ranjan - Umm? :)