tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9502282.post112499755853713804..comments2023-10-15T21:02:07.882+05:30Comments on As If I Care..!: Choice to choose.Lady Zhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14188786014886058389noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9502282.post-1125299225410028002005-08-29T12:37:00.000+05:302005-08-29T12:37:00.000+05:30@luke - Being selfish helps,no two ways about it.B...@luke - Being selfish helps,no two ways about it.But I'd disagree on the nobody rules emotions part.Our emotions are,but the products of our thoughts.<BR/><BR/>Total mastery is,therfore, when you have control over what you are expressing,no matter what your thoughts are :).<BR/><BR/><BR/>@ Deep - Am glad you perceived the article in the same frame of mind as it was conceived :).<BR/><BR/>Tht's wht I'm trying to convey.Our reactions dont have to be dictated by our env or by any norms.We can choose our own reactions based on the situation,and trust me,this only helps in making things better. You are customising/personalising your relations by chossing the way you react :).Lady Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14188786014886058389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9502282.post-1125259620780503822005-08-29T01:37:00.000+05:302005-08-29T01:37:00.000+05:30Whoa!!!Is this the height of coincidence or what. ...Whoa!!!<BR/>Is this the height of coincidence or what. An hour before i read your post, i was discussing the exact same thing with my roomie.<BR/><BR/>I really dont have any responses to what you've been talkin about, but only an experience of my own. A 'friend' confesses a wrongdoing. She expects me to lambast her and slam doors and storm out of the room. But i do the exact opposite. Not that i was trying to be a mahatma or something. But i did wat came naturally to me. And in hindsight, i realise, there couldn't have been a better punishment for her. Had i reacted and reprimanded her, she would've felt better and less guilty.<BR/><BR/>OK, yeah i know its becoming more of a post of my own than a comment at yours. But i found your post very contextual with today's discussion. Anyway. <BR/>C u some timeAchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17152030588841693700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9502282.post-1125170175870513092005-08-28T00:46:00.000+05:302005-08-28T00:46:00.000+05:30You do feel the anger,but instead of shouting,you ...You do feel the anger,but instead of shouting,you choose someother way to respond.Or mebbe,you can master your emotions and choose not to get angry at all? :)<BR/><BR/>Reaching higher level is about not letting the surroundings/situations dictate your reaction,but you,yourself deciding your response.<BR/><BR/>And you arnt as dumb as you'd like to believe :).Lady Zhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14188786014886058389noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9502282.post-1125098652913806292005-08-27T04:54:00.000+05:302005-08-27T04:54:00.000+05:30I am dumb.There is a difference between feeling an...I am dumb.<BR/><BR/>There is a difference between feeling an emotion and letting that emotion transform into a response / reaction.If you still feel anger but choose not show it , it isnt much good.A true person is not someone who chooses to hide some feelings , but is at a level of understanding such that he does not feel that anger.Now if you do not understand what I wrote , look at the first line i wrote.<BR/><BR/>so its not ur problem.I am dumb.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com